Monday, May 10, 2010
Bergwall, Blog 8: Adoption Freedom Pending
Twenty, thirty or forty years ago adoptions were being kept very secret. Non-disclosure was the rule of the day. Many times they were born out of wedlock to teenage parents that had no way to care for an infant. The adoption occurred with the social stigma of not allowing the name of the birth parent to be found out, this was to ward off embarrassment to the family.
This is 2010 and stigmas have changed. Now it is not the end all to have a baby out of wedlock and we now face the facts that adoption may be the best resource for many couple to go to. This era supports open adoptions where the birth parents can have contact and knowledge how the child is doing. The process seems to bring less conflict to the child in dealing with their identity. More emphasis is being put on helping the families be whole.
This year Minnesota Legislation Bill 1679 authored by Representative Simon is being sponsored so that people that have been adopted can request information at age 19 about their birth parents. If the adoption is a non-disclosure adoption, there will be avenues where the adopted can petition the court for disclosure. The bill is stuck in the Minnesota House with some authors dropping out much to the dismay of many progressive adoption reformers.
My friend was adopted in the late 40’s and was adopted by not very nice parents. She wanted to find her birth parents in 70’s but was not allowed to because of the non-disclosure agreement. In her case her father had put her up for adoption and pressured the mother to release to adopt. Finding her mother was her greatest quest; she had to wait until the death of her adopted mother to petition the courts for information. She found her birth mother after a great search and that bonding was the missing link of her identity.
I am parents of adopted children that were neglected. They knew their birth parents and they have the names of their birth parents. We all know at some point they will go to meet their birth parents and find out who they are now. They are not as curious as some adopted children are and that is because they remember who these birth parents were. The link of identity is known to them and the safety of their new life has helped them move on to a better life of peace within themselves.
This Bill 1679 can help children that were born under the stigma of embarrassment. It will help the adopted find closure of who they are. Society is now more open to disclosure of the past; although there maybe some still stuck in the past that do not want to be reunited. This may turn painful for some, but for others a sense of knowing where they came from will be healing. Now we wait for the Minnesota Legislators to find their way through this bill to help the adopted find their identities.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Bergwall, Blog 6: A New Way To Bury
This bill gave the right of bereaved relative or guardian to be able to transport and prepare the remains for burial. Doctor Michael Osterholm from the University of Minnesota State Epidemiology Department testified before Committee on Health, Housing and Family Security about the safety of handling a dead body. Osterholm testified that he was a 100% certain that an intact body will not contaminated anyone with an infectious disease. Most deaths (85%) he cited were of the heart attack or cancer variety and with an intact body it was very safe to care for and transport the body by family. This put many fears to rest for the legislators.
Before the bill was passed you had to make special arrangement to be alone with the body and have to have special arrangements to transport the body. The bill came about because families did not like incurring the expense of mortuaries without a viable alternative. Families started objecting to embalming the body for environmental reasons and finding that the embalming process would last only two weeks anyway. The process in keeping the body preserved was started in WWI for keeping our dead soldiers bodies whole until they could be buried at their own home cemetery and that is where embalming came in.
This practice of embalming and the mortuary’s handling all affairs is relatively a new process. Before that most funerals were done at home with the deceased being viewed in the parlor and buried in a church cemetery or a home cemetery. “The personal aspect of families taking care of their dead has been lost,” a sponsor of the bill inform. Anyone who picked up a body now has to sign a certificate where the body is going and there are many other restrictions. This new bill gives transportation rights to family and 72 hours to take care of the funeral preparations.
Stories of home burials and preparations were told at the hearing about the closeness of the experience. It made it easier for the families to say goodbye and grieve in a normal way, the witnesses testified at the hearing before the Committee on Health, Housing and Family Security at the Minnesota Legislation. Stories were told of decorating and preparing the coffins and how the family reflected and told tales about the individual’s life during that time. This is usually done with the help of dry ice instead of embalming fluid which allowed the family to do this. There is a change and this personal touch is coming back into vogue instead of the former ides that have made the burial process homogenized.
This freedom of how families want to say goodbye to their loved ones is growing in popularity. It is definitely felt in the State of Minnesota as it goes forward with the passing and signing Bill SP2903 into law. It may not be for everyone but the grassroots of living and dying is taking hold of American lives. Minnesota is ahead in this learning curve and that is good for Minnesota.
Bergwall, Blog 5: Car Accident in Cambridge
On Sunday, April, 25, around 2:40 a.m., a 2000 Oldsmobile Bravada SUV driven by Josh Netzel, 24 of Sandstone, was traveling east-bound on Hwy. 95 when it collided with a 1998 Pontiac Grand Am, driven by Schumacher, heading west-bound.
The accident occurred on Hwy. 95, just west of the Cambridge Rum River Bridge.
Travis Buchan, 17, of Cambridge; Kelsee Blackledge, 15, of Isanti; Tres Kendryna-Whitefeather, 16, of Cambridge and Travis Gryczkowski, 21, of Cambridge, all passengers in the Grand Am, were killed.
Both Netzel and his passenger, Aaron Neuschwander, 23, of Mora, were also killed. The Bravada SUV burst into flames upon impact.
The driver, SeBrina Schumacher, is now in satisfactory condition at Hennepin County Medical Center.
The family released a statement through HCMC that said, “The family of SeBrina Schumacher confirms that they’ve been notified of the results of the blood alcohol test that was taken at Cambridge Medical Center. According to the test, there was no alcohol in her system at the time of the crash.”
These excerpts are from the Isant County News about the recent accident that captivated the attention of the State of Minnesota. The community of Cambridge woke up that Sunday morning finding out that four high school students driving a Pontiac from CIHS were dead along with two men in their twenties driving an SUV. The only survivor was a student who was sixteen, she had recently passed her driving test and was now reported to be in a comma. Speculation of drunk driving surfaced right away about the students because an officer on the scene had smelled liquor from the crashed car.
The wind of stories whipped around Cambridge as the unfolding of the identities came forth. Toxicology reports were being done on all involved. The news stations from the Twin Cities got involved with a discussion of why the students were not using seat belts and how come the 16 year old female was driving that many people after curfew. The focus was mainly on the students. More trepidation began when it was reported by EMT’s that in all their years they had never seen such a horrific accident. The mourning vigil of the young people and family started with signing poster boards and hanging flowers at the crash site. These actions filled our TV local news and captivated our local highway. The communities heart sank as they watched everything unfold and knowing that the local prom was less than a week away. Speculation occurred whether the teens now had learned from this heartbreak.
Cambridge had done its mock drills and the local EMT’s did do a program about driving and drinking weeks before for the CIHS student body. They were not lax in the warning and were dismayed that state critics would think that they were not educating the teens on teen survival subjects. The school and community got on their haunches and proclaimed they had been proactive and had done their job. The parents of the deceased kids were saying to reporters that it was just an accident and not to lay blame on anyone. Nobody wanted to be blamed for this devastation.
The fault turned out to be the drivers of the SUV. They were the ones that were drinking without a designated driver. It was reported that they had been at a birthday party in Cambridge that afternoon and were already drunk at that time. At the accident site they had landed on top of their SUV and were caught in a fiery blaze; there was not enough left of them to even do a toxicology report but the sighting of them at various places that day confirmed they were intoxicated. Schumacher also relayed days later that they had crossed the centerline.
It was about 2:40 am when they crossed over centerline and hit the car with the kids. No one was wearing their seat belt except the young 16 year old Schumacher who was the designated driver of the Pontiac. She was spared, although the way the SUV had hit the Pontiac, seatbelts may not have changed the outcome of the accident. The only thing that may have changed the outcome of this accident would be those two young men would had their own designated driver then this story may never have occurred.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Cmmunity Key Issues
The Mayor of Cambridge is Marlys Palmer who has served for 12years. She is the first woman to hold the office of mayor in the city. Like most cities Mayor Palmer said the source of strain for communities is finding enough cash to meet the needs of the town. Cambridge is unique in that the upkeep required for this smaller city involves two major highways, is a major railroad spur for Burlington Northern, and is on a river that has two bridges to maintain. These transportation avenues need attention of the city at various times of crisis. With traffic control, water pollution and job losses being on most of the City Councils agenda for supervision these infrastructures are a handful to maintain under Mayor Palmer and the councils watchful eye.
Right now the burning fire brand is the tentative loss of Minnesota Extended Treatment Option or METO as reported in the Isanti County News. Cambridge has housed a State facility for the disabled since the 1920’s. The large system was dismembered in the 1990’s by the State of Minnesota. The clients were released or housed in smaller more family like housing after that. METO was a part of this reconstruction. METO in Cambridge is a 16 bed facility that houses clients with extreme behavior disorders. Cambridge’s workforce was trained mostly out of the previous State Hospital system. The loss of METO would mean the loss of 66 jobs and that would also mean the loss of continuity for 16 clients that have made METO their home. The City of Cambridge is looking into helping support the Senator from North Branch Rick Olseen in advocating for its survival.
The City of Cambridge works close with MNDOT about the traffic congestion created by the train going through Cambridge during peak times. The back-up of traffic can be huge. Another traffic concern is the need for two bridge replacements crossing the Rum River; this is also on front burner. How traffic flows will be a major concern when each of these bridges is being rebuilt.
Isanti County is number one in the State Of Minnesota in foreclosed housing. This county was on the fastest growth list in the state several years ago; it was also on the end of the housing boom. With that boom ending so abruptly it has created a huge financial strain. It is a hard thing for the elected officials to deal with when the tax revenues bases are being eroded by people losing their homes. But the City of Cambridge and the County of Isanti come from a long tradition of fighters and fortifiers of their community. They have great optimism and determination as they go through this decade of economic hardship and growth. The people of Cambridge and Isanti County are behind their community leaders with hopes of a fast and sure recovery.
Friday, March 5, 2010
Burn Baby Burn The Credit Cards Crunch
New houses and complexes were being built all over the city and county. The City of Cambridge even got into the housing development business. The State of Minnesota sold the City of Cambridge a huge parcel of undeveloped land in the middle of the city extraordinary set of circumstances in city growth. The parcel was used for a driving range for golf in the 90’s run by the State of MN. The rest of the acreage had been used as a State Hospital and was now deemed kaput. Beautiful land running parallel to the Rum River was now open for development and being sold to County and City governments dirt cheap. Many people wanted the City to put a much needed community center on this lovely property but they forsook common sense and went into the real estate business with the rest of areas frenzy for building. Now many of these houses are in foreclosure as week after week in the local paper houses are lost in this area of the city. and half of the development sets vacant. The housing boom has stopped in Isanti County and Cambridge much to the hardship of its citizens.
That is where Mary’s and Bert’s story comes in, they was told they now could afford one of these lovely houses in Cambridge in 2005 with terms of not much money down, this was a dream come true for their family. They loved the new house, never did they have such a nice place with so much room for all 5 of them. Nobody in their family took anything for granted after they purchased this house and they all pitched in to keep their dream afloat.
Credit cards were offered to them to help them with their dream. They got a few drapes, a new couch because they really didn’t have one before, beds for the kids all the things to start out in their new home, not extravagant but sensible. In the interim, Bert got sick and had to have heart surgery in 2007. His job was secure, but there was a long recovery time and many prescriptions and doctor bills that put them into more debt than expected.
All the payments in Mary’s and Bert’s household were being paid. It was a tight stretch but they were making it. Then the housing market crashed in 2009 and the value of their house was now flip flopped. They felt it would come back and they would stay put because they loved their home and they were settled.
Most of their credit cards were at 8-9% which they thought was fair. Then Mary and Bert started getting raises on the interest rates on their credit cards and the lines of credit they acquired when Bert was sick. Now they were at 15-16%; okay that is the way it goes and they would try to pay it off faster. They stopped using their cards, and sent all their payments in on time. Now they got a late notice because of processing on the companies end took 5 extra days, thus a rise in interest occurred. Now they were told what a bad risk they were even though all obligations were current and they paid even more than the minimums requirements.
Mary and Bert sent letters to the companies, made phone calls and were directed to foreign call centers where the answers were vague and of no help. Monthly the rates were accelerating into the stratosphere; 21 to 29% was being accessed routinely because they had credit. Still they paid, with a third of their payments now being interest. Spinning and going nowhere.
The inevitable job lay off hit this family. They looked at the dilemma; flip flopped house mortgage, do they walk away from the house or credit card companies, do they default on them with their ever increasing interest and demands? They saw others on the news shows protesting the credit card companies. “Why don’t they just let us pay these bills at a descent rate and we could still afford to pay our debt. What sense does it make to choke us so we can not pay these bills? Something’s not right here,” Mary surmised in dismay.
They saw the bank bailout in 2009 and Mary and Bert decided to bailout on their credit cards. The bra burning or credit card burning was implemented. Mary uses the word “Shylock’ many times when she talks about the banks referring to the Shakespearean character that wanted an unreasonable pound of flesh for a debt. Bert likes the reaping and sowing concept of the Bible and feels the banks should have extended the mercy given to them. My friends say this with hurt in their eyes about the attempt they made to improve their lives in a once endorsed credit culture that is not there anymore. Mary and Bert are still trying to stay afloat, I wish them well.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Communities Go To Place Shuts Down After 77 Years
Fridays were big for gathering information because that is when the farmers came in to do their shopping and swap stories about the crops, potato bugs, other farmers who had uneven planted rows, or they’d talk about a new piece of machinery that was purchased by a rogue farmer and then surmised how rich they were to purchase that. The Mayor of Cambridge would have his own time and stool at the counter to talk about his community insights to the cronies. State politicians would walk through and shake hands when they were campaigning, and if time permitted.sit at the soda fountain awhile to gather votes.
In 2006 Anderson Drug Store moved to a smaller more efficient store still downtown, but where there was no soda fountain to sit around. Charlie and Jim had sold it to an outside company; Don Anderson the founder had died years before this and they now wanted to retire. The new store seemed homey in the old Hardies building on the corner which they beautifully remodeled. They now had a drive up window courtesy of the former tenants. Because Kevin the Pharmacist was from Cambridge and Dave the Pharmacist Manager was a fine fit we all felt it was okay, local life was continuing.
It was nice going in there and seeing a smiling face you knew and you could still chat about the community. You see in Cambridge to be considered a true local you need 20 years under your belt to be taken seriously. The new owners by keeping all the same counter help made all the locals feel better that our community roots were intact even if the big box stores were crushing in all around us.
The big boss that bought Anderson Drug lives in Texas. He decided one day to sell. Done, finished, sold he gave the staff a 6 days’ notice. All prescriptions were sold and moved to Walgreen's which is out of downtown close to the other big box stores. The newly remodeled building would now be put up for sale. No warning. We were told by a worker that there was no severance pay for the counter workers and techs many of them have worked there over 20 years. The worst of the closing was that it happened so fast and the community could not say goodbye. Big business once again wins with its huge profits gods being fed and its un-ceremonial dismissal of people.
For the community of Cambridge, Anderson Drug Store was a place where you got your news, where you saw friends, bought birthday cards, talked to local politicians and felt a part of a community. I guess everything has to move on with the times, but sometimes it painful for the soul of the community to lose part of its identity.
Friday, February 5, 2010
Minnesotans trounce January and Fighting February.
Minnesotans trounce January and Fighting February. There was no whining this last January 2010 as Minnesotans took on the weather with relish. Snow fell like scoopfuls in December at Christmas time. There were not many complaints as many embraced the quiet of a beautiful snow gilded landscape. East Central Minnesotans were polled on slippery snow banks on the corner of their street how they fared this January. Neighbors seized the opportunity of weather stories such as frozen pipes, slippery sidewalk spills, smashed in fenders, and collapsed roofs telling how they put these setbacks in prospective. They have seen worse and they are forging ahead to a spring outlook.
The end of December the big snowstorm came and went and we of the North Star State waited for the Big Chill with baited icy breath. The Chill whipped 20 to 25 below after the 1st of January and lasted awhile. It looked like we were heading for the record book, which grizzly Minnesotans love to talk about breaking; but alas it got too mild in mid-January to put any tally marks up. Chris Shaffer weather blog from WCCO reported the Big Chill came back at the end of January trying to give us a spanking, but we blew it off when we went into February. The real demise in record setting came with our snow fall; we did not have any significant snow as Kare 11 has reported on Groundhog Day about the January shortfall. We were cold but no significant snow fell in the usually snowiest month of the year.
Minnesota's demeanor is filled with overcoming; some call it brain freeze, with our ice fishing contest, snow carnivals, winter parades, snow sports and our travel stories about driving during a snow storm. A social and meeting time is snow blowing and helping shovel the sidewalks on a Saturday morning. Stories are swapped about local news and then back to the igloo for nourishment. The stories are then retold to the family with hopes that things will go better for the ones that have been bit by the cold of January.
This year many pipes have busted on houses kept at 50 degrees with no one living there as reported by Servicemaster representative. This happened across the street from me in
These property losses costs make Minnesotans a little weak in the knees; but they brace up and continue on the trail, steadfast to face the next January in 2011. After all the Groundhog on February 2nd may not always be right; spring is within sight for many of the true overcomers from the North.
